“How wonderfully you have grown since January of last year” ~Morgan Harper Nichols
Happy New Year everyone!
A whole new year has started and with that a new decade has begun. Fresh days, weeks and months for all of us to fill in. Hopefully they will be having lots of positive energy and laughter in them, so great new memories for twenty twenty will be made!
I’m not big on new year resolutions, but this time I did choose a word for Moksi Collective 2020 - Onward. I’ve been using it more and more lately and it keeps me motivated and focused to grow MC as a brand.
Yet, for some people the start of a new year can make them feel anxious; making them wonder more than they normally would do.
“Am I on the right path? Is this the job for me? Can I do this? Am I enough? What will this year bring?” type of questions. The pressure of starting over, no more procrastinating or finally having the courage to start that dream - all at the beginning of a new year can be daunting. But do we really need to put more pressure on ourselves, simply because the calendar has turned a page?
I think not.
Because everyday is a new day to start fresh with intention, so if you don’t feel this is the right time for you, don’t create more stress for yourself and don’t look what other people are doing. Instead, look at all the other months on the calendar and breathe. January does not have to be your starting or turning point. Give March a try or June or October - all lovely months waiting to be your special month (I’m smiling while typing this, cause it would be nice if months could raise their hands and say “Hey, over here! I’m the one for you!”.
Anyhoo…
Behind the scenes I’m working on a new video to finish up for MC, which I’m excited about so when finished you will be the first to know.
Also, for the past two months I’ve been looking around Brighton for a co-working space to work from. After a year of working from home or cafe’s - and after working in Brooklyn from a desk at We Work - I knew it was time again to find a designated space of my own. I almost signed up with one of the co-working places I liked, yet somehow my gut hold me back from signing. I’m glad I listened, because right before Christmas I found what I was really looking for! Now I’m typing this post from my new desk in a shared big studio. I’ll share some photo’s when I’m really settled in and decorated some more, but my smile is Big and the correct hashtag is #grateful.
January can also be a great time to clear things out (clothing, medicine, back of the cupboards stuff, etc) and clean technical things up (computer, phone, admin), so I’m easing into this month doing all of these things, while working on the MC to-do list and two other projects that are tied to MC. Step by step and slowly but surely I can finally see the bigger picture what I really want to achieve as the mission statement for MC.
In the mean time today, I hopped on Instagram Stories and shared the next date for our Meetup in Brighton - February 26th. More about the upcoming Meetups, the Studio and other projects in a separate post. Because it’s time to wrap up and catch my bus home.
Talk soon!
Maureen x
photo: S. Harvey via Unsplash
They say, comparison is the thief of joy and this made me wonder...
Do you ever look at someone else's work and wonder why they are more successful than you? Do you think: How come she has more followers? Why is her body prettier or thinner than mine? Why is her work featured every time and mine is not? How much money does she make? She's just lucky...
Do you?
“Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome. Vulnerability is not weakness; it's our greatest measure of courage.” ~ Brene Brown
Some day - after all this is over and we are running around again in our busy lives - we'll look back at this lockdown and see the importance of slowing down.
"For me, writing from the heart - the way I'm doing right now - is something I always did and will continue to do so. Because that's the kind of woman I intend to stay." ~ Maureen
I always say that living in New York City has thought me to Own My Story.
Well, the part of owning your story and sharing it with others online - to inspire or empower - also means that you need to be vulnerable. I'm okay with this part.
"Cling to joy. Bold audacious joy, that looks for Light in everything - even when you're waiting" ~morgan harper nichols
Hello Everyone,
Tomorrow, Monday March 30th, I'm hosting a 40 minutes Zoom Chat for all of you, who want to talk about moving forward - whether in your business or personal development.
"We are at our finest when we take care of each other"
As we all live in very uncertain times, due to the Corona virus spreading around the world, these last few days I've been thinking long and hard what to do regarding the Meetups…
IMPORTANT UPDATE:
DUE TO THE SPREADING OF THE CORONA VIRUS,
THIS AND OTHER MC EVENTS, ARE CANCELLED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE.
“For many years I’ve moved from country to country and last year - when I moved from New York City to Brighton - I had this small idea of bringing women together.
To hold a space for each other, to connect and collaborate, to learn and to grow. That’s how the first Creative Meetup started.
And you know what happened? There was magic in the air. Because there’s something special about a group of women gathering together, making real connections with each other - face to face….”
Do you know about the P-club?
The club of Procrastination. The one club we all have walked in and stayed too long. Maybe not always - only in the periods of our lives we wanted to avoid something. We probably were having a good time, while our brain was telling us “shouldn’t you be doing this or that?”. If there was a real P-club, I would definitely be a member. Honour medal and all.
But I also know when it’s time to come out of the P-club and focus on what really matters to keep me going - my body, mind and soul.
It’s almost happening - our next Creative Meetup in Brighton will be on February 26th!
This time we are collaborating with Art Republic Gallery and the evening will take place in their beautiful gallery in the North Laines in Brighton. Art Republic is a great place to stimulate and inspire our minds for this event. Our guest speaker is the sweet and talented Rossella from Rossella Skincare and together with our two other guests, it’s going to be a mixed evening of learning, connecting and creating - all while you’re enjoying a drink and some nibbles from Luisa from Abeille Bakery.
Could I inspire others or even empower them when I have doubts myself? I thought about this for awhile, but yes - yes I can! (“oh hello Fear, here you are - again… do have a seat in the back of my mind and I’ll continue with my day, okay?”)
“When you buy from a small business, an actual person does a little happy dance.”
Showing support for any small business is huge and can be the connecting dots they need to either stay in business, or simply to be seen by more people. So I’m giving away the newest print edition of the 91 magazine - which I bought at our local specialized Magazine Shop in Brighton.
This year is flying by so fast, I can’t believe we’re already preparing for our fourth Meetup!
If you are new here, at Moksi Collective we’re big on creating community, by empowering female creatives and entrepreneurs. Our Meetups are relaxed with drinks & nibbles while we talk about different topics - from creativity & wellbeing to business tools, social media and everything in between.
Each month has a different main topic and for October it’s “Creating Community”.
We all love to look at pretty pictures, right? Whether it’s online, on tv, in magazines or in books - our imagination gets triggered and inspiration kicks in when we see visually inspiring photo’s or videos. That’s why so many of us love to be on Instagram. But what most people don't realize, is that Instagram, Facebook and Twitter are social media networks who are always in need of feeding new content.
Now ask yourself this; is it worth spending so much of your time, effort and energy into these apps? Enter Pinterest.
Tonight, I couldn’t stop thinking about the meaning of names and titles and the importance we put on ourselves and others.
From the moment we are born, our name is attached to us. Perhaps we’ll change it later in life by marriage or preference - but still, we have that name. It’s not who we are.
And yet, when it comes to our titles at work or as a profession, we somehow tend to put more value on this part of our lives.